NAILS IN YOUR COFFIN: CIGARETTES!

"Tobacco is an evil weed;
On the sabbath it began to seed.
It robs your pocket and burns your clothes,
And makes a smokestack of your nose!"
The reasons given for smoking are numerous:
I smoke because it is a clean, refined habit.
I smoke because I love to cough and hack.
I smoke because it is the way to God, who said, "Keep thyself pure. Touch not the unclean thing."
I smoke to see how much poison my body can take in before it dies.
I smoke to show my self-control.
I smoke because it leaves such a pleasant aroma for others.
I smoke so I can set a good example for others to follow.
I smoke because it gives me a "macho" appearance.
I smoke because I like the pretty colors it gives my hands and teeth.
I smoke to show I am a good steward of the money with which God has blessed me.

Mark Twain once said, "To cease smoking is the easiest thing I ever did. I ought to know. I've done it a thousand times." This may seem quite humorous at first, yet the inability to quit smoking is a very real problem among the brethren.

More Americans die each year from diseases caused by cigarette smoking than died in battle in Viet Nam and World War II combined, the American Lung Association says. Think about that for a minute. Forty-seven thousand Americans died in the Viet Nam conflict, while 292,000 American battle deaths were recorded in World War II. This year, over 350,000 men and women will die as a result of cigarette smoking.

Nicotine is a drug. Chemically, it is C10H14N2, and is pharmacologically categorized as an organic nerve drug. It is estimated that nicotine is responsible for more deaths per year than the abuse of "hard drugs". The person, Christian or non-Christian, who smokes cigarettes is guilty of drug abuse! (I Cor. 6:19-20). Does cigarette smoking glorify God? Does it harm your body? Because it does not glorify God and does harm to the body, smoking is a sin.

Christians are to be "the light of the world" (Matt. 5:14). Yet, how can one reflect the true Light, Jesus Christ (John 1:9) when their "globe" is tarnished with tobacco stain? Anything that hurts your Christian influence is wrong. How can smoking parents, who are not exempt from setting the proper example before their children, expect their children to heed their warning to stay away from drugs? Children know hypocrisy when they see it. To say, "Do as I say, not as I do," does not excuse the parents from setting a Christ-like example before their children.

When a person allows himself to become enslaved to a habit, the habit has control of his life rather than the person being in control of his life. The very fact that one is controlled by something or someone other than Christ is wrong! If He is the Lord of our lives, His word, the Bible, will control our lives, not a habit.

The problem of smoking is really not different from any other problem. It involves the seeking of that which is pleasurable in this life with a total disregard of its eternal consequences. No one can quit anything, or give up anything, unless he really wants to, but Christ can help the Christian to be victorious when we lean upon His promises, remembering...(Phili. 4:13).
[from The Chapel Hill Courier, vol. 7, no. 23, June 23, 1988, p. 3]

ACTS OF THE APOSTLES

Author: The author of Acts has usually been recognized as Luke. The opening statement...(Acts 1:1) associates this book with the Gospel of Luke.
Time: Generally, the date is thought to be around 63 A.D. This would have the writing of the book near the end of Paul's imprisonment in Rome as the book concludes.
Contents: The book is concerned with the establishment of the church in Jerusalem and the spread of the Gospel of Christ from that city to outer reaches of the Mediterranean world. It records the acts of Peter and Paul, mainly Paul as apostles of the first century church. It also emphasizes the inclusion of the Gentiles in the church.

Outline

Chapter 1	The ascension of Christ; selection of Matthias
Chapter 2	The church is established in Jerusalem
Chapter 3	The healing of the lame man by Peter & John
Chapter 4	Peter & John imprisoned; 5,000 converted
Chapter 5	Death of Ananias & Sapphira
Chapter 6	The seven deacons appointed
Chapter 7	Stephen's sermon and his death
Chapter 8	Philip preaches in Samaria; Conversion of Ethiopian
Chapter 9	Conversion of Saul of Tarsus
Chapter 10	Conversion of Cornelius
Chapter 11	Peter's defense of the Gentiles' conversion
Chapter 12	Death of James
Chapter 13-14	Paul's first missionary journey
Chapter 15	The Jerusalem council
Chapter 16-18	Paul's second missionary journey
Chapter 18-20	Paul's third journey
Chapter 21	Paul's journey to Jerusalem; His arrest
Chapter 22	Paul's speech on the castle stairs
Chapter 23	His defense before the Council
Chapter 24	Paul defends his faith before Felix
Chapter 25	His defense before Festus
Chapter 26	Paul is examined by Agrippa (King)
Chapter 27-28	He journeys to Rome

PAUL'S LETTERS OF THE NEW TESTAMENT

Book	Date	Written from	Comment
I Thessalonians	A.D. 52	Corinth	2nd trip - church in Thessalonica established - Paul forced to leave for Berea, Athens, Corinth where Timothy brought him word about the suffering of the saints and their concern of the benefits of the dead at the 2nd coming of Christ.
II Thessalonians	A.D. 52 (a few months later)	Corinth	2nd trip - a response to the 1st letter and additional info about 2nd coming of Christ.
I Corinthians	Spring of A.D. 57	Ephesus	3rd trip with plans to go to Corinth - Paul responds to serious problems in the church brought to his attention by the leaders.
II Corinthians	Fall of A.D. 57	Macedonia	3rd trip on way to Corinth - met Titus with news from Corinth about reception of first letter - some were denying his apostleship
Galatians	Winter of A.D. 57	Macedonia	3rd trip - while in Greece - he writes to the church of Galatia about problems of circumcision
Romans	Winter of A.D. 57	Corinth	In Corinth preparing for his trip to Jerusalem - sends letter by Phoebe on her way to Rome - the theme is the Gospel - announces his intent to visit Rome.
Ephesians	A.D. 61-63	Roman prison	In Rome after his appeal in Jerusalem - emphasis is on the oneness, universality and glory of the body of Christ, the church.
Colossians	A.D. 61-63	Roman prison	In Rome Paul received word about the Colossae church by Epaphras - letter emphasizes deity and all suffering of Christ.
Philemon	A.D. 61-63	Roman prison	In Rome Paul meets Onesimus - a runaway slave - converts him and sends letter by him to Philemon.
Philippians	A.D. 61-63	Roman prison	In Rome Epaphroditus meets Paul - tells him of the Philippians' love for him.
Hebrews	A.D. 61-63	Roman prison	In Italy (13:24) - written to Jewish Christians in Jerusalem - preparing them for the destruction of Jerusalem and the Temple.

REVELATION
Introduction:

I.	Authorship and circumstances
	1.	Author, John and Apostle of the Lord (Rev. 1:1-2).
	2.	Addresses to the seven churches of Asia (Rev. 1:4, 11).
	3.	Greetings from Him who is, the seven spirits and Christ the faithful witness (Rev. 1:4-5).
	4.	Circumstances of the author
		(1)	Shares with his readers in Jesus, tribulation and patient endurance (Rev. 1:9).
		(2)	Exiled on the Island of Patmos (Rev. 1:9).
		(3)	Was in the spirit on the Lord's Day (Rev. 1:10).
		(4)	Was told to write in a book what he hears and sees (Rev. 1:11).
II.	Setting of the Text
	1.	Set in an historical setting and relates to historical events.
	2.	The Roman Emperor Domitian ruled (81-96)
		(1)	Title of "Lord and God"
		(2)	Erected statues of himself and demanded to be worshiped.
		(3)	Christians were severely persecuted
	3.	Time frame couched in the language of the writer:
		(1)	Rev. 1:1 "...what must soon take place"
		(2)	Rev. 1:3 "...the time is near"
		(3)	Rev. 22:6 "...the things that most soon take place"
		(4)	Rev. 22:10 "Do not seal up the words of the prophecy of this book, because the time is near"
III.	Type of writing and literature "Apocalyptic"
	1.	"An unveiling, or uncovering, a revealing"
	2.	It is lurid in its colors, violent in its tone, strikes the imagination, is vivid and easily remembered. It is a language of conflict and victory.
	3.	Examples in the Old Testament are found in Daniel, Ezekiel and Zechariah.
	4.	Guidelines of interpretation:
		(1)	When reading a book without "Apocalyptic" writings, understand it literally unless forced to do otherwise.
		(2)	When reading a book with "Apocalyptic" writings understand it figuratively unless there is good reason to do otherwise.

	The Ten Commandments		New Testament Com.
Exo. 20:3	No other Gods before me	Mark 12:29	The Lord our God is one.
Exo. 20:4	No graven image - (idol)	John 4:24	God is a spirit.
Exo. 20:7	Do not take the name of God in vain	Matt. 5:34	Swear not at all.
Exo. 20:8	Remember and keep holy the Sabbath	Mark 2:27	Sabbath made for man.
Exo. 20:12	Honor father and mother	Eph. 6:1	Children obey your parents.
Exo. 20:13	Thou shalt not kill	Psa. 139:14-16; Matt. 5:22; I John 3:15	Hate = murder
Exo. 20:14	Thou shalt not commit adultery	Matt. 5:28	To look and lust = adultery.
Exo. 20:15	Thou shalt not steal	I Cor. 10:24	Seek neighbor's good.
Exo. 20:16	Do not lie	Eph. 4:25	Put away falsehood; speak the truth.
Exo. 20:17	Thou shalt not covet.	Rom. 7:7	Law is how I know covet.

The Eleventh Commandment

Love neighbor as self (Lev. 19:18; Matt. 22:39).

(Matt. 22:34-40). Firstly love God. Secondly love neighbor. On these 2 commands hang all the law and the prophets.

The law was our schoolmaster to bring us to Christ (Gal. 3). That we might be justified by faith. Gal. 3:25, but after that faith is come, we are no longer under a schoolmaster but you better believe, you need him for bringing up.

When your neighbor learns by law that he is a thief, a liar, a murderer, then tell him Jesus died for him to build that faith in him and lead him to complete obedience. Faith, repentance, confession, baptism.
[by William S. Payne]

WHICH DISTURBS YOU MOST?

A soul on the way to hell	or	a scratch on your new car?
Missing a church service	or	missing a day's work?
The church not growing	or	the TV going on the blink?
Going a week without doing any church work	or	the house-cleaning and laundry doing undone?
To lose God's favor and not be on praying terms with Him	or	to have your best friend become miffed and to act cool toward you?
Your child becoming unfaithful to the Lord	or	losing your job?
Going a day without prayer and Bible reading	or	missing your recreation and missing a meal?
Seeing some trouble arise in the church	or	having your football team lose a crucial game?
Burning forever in a devil's hell	or	being blown to bits by an atomic bomb?

[from Orange Ave. church of Christ, Eustis, Fla., Sept. 15, 1991]

MANNERS ARE THE HAPPY WAYS OF DOING THINGS
Let me be a little kinder
Let me be a little blinder
To the faults of those about me
Let me praise a little more
Let me be when I am weary
Just a little bit more cheery
Let me serve a little better
Those that I am striving for.

Let me be a little braver
When temptation bids me waver.
Let me strive a little harder
To be all that I should be.
Let me be a little meeker
With my brother who is weaker
Let me think more of my neighbor
And less of me.

A MAN MUST KNOW
Who reaps the grain and plows the sod
Must feel a kinship with his God.
For there's so much on earth to see
That marks the hand of Deity.
When blossoms spring from tiny shoots,
When orchards yield its luscious fruit,
When sap is running from great trees
On all occasions such as these,
The man who breathes fresh country air
Must know full well that God is there.
[from Sycamore Sunbeam]

What we hold on to retains its hold on us. If we say to ourselves, "I'll never forget the way he treated me," we won't. How can we? If we remind ourselves again and again of some loss or injustice or bitterness, we find ourselves living with limitations of the past instead of enjoying the present.

Personally, humanly, we may find it difficult to keep these unwanted thoughts and feelings from recurring. Rather than fight or resist them, we can bless them and place them in the light of the redeeming, forgiving love of Christ. What we cannot forgive, Christ in us can. What we cannot release, Christ in us can release. We have within us the power to rise up out of old hurts, old griefs, old unhappiness. We have the power to see ourselves in a new light, the power to see other persons and all of life from an entirely new standpoint, from the standpoint of the Christ love, which is all-forgiving.

I see myself, other persons, and all of life from the standpoint of the Christ's love, which is all-forgiving.
[from Sycamore Sunbeam]

ARE WE WILLING
To close our book of complaints and to open a book of praise?
To believe that other men are quite as sincere as we are and treat them with respect?
To be content with such things as we have and to stop whining for the things we have not?
To ignore what life owes us and to think of what we own life?
[from Sycamore Sunbeam]

PARENTAL INFLUENCE
Today, I read in the newspaper of a child, who had fatally swallowed gasoline. In reconstructing how the child got the gasoline, the father remembered that he had siphoned some out of the car for the lawn mower. She had watched him and apparently thought that she would imitate his act.

After reading of the incident, I thought about parental influence and consequences. Little eyes are watching and little ears are hearing what we do and say as parents. Risks that we take before them may prove fatal to them. We would not endanger them in any way, yet we do it through carelessness. Tragically, mothers and fathers are careless in their religious life, but the children who follow them are the ones who suffer most for it. If you knew you child would follow your example, how would you be acting!
[from Sycamore Sunbeam]

THE REAL FRIEND
There is a profound irony, and
It seems to be rather odd;
How often we see our best friends, and
How seldom we talk to God.
[from Sycamore Sunbeam]

WHAT DOES "WATER" MEAN?
Some few years ago while in a meeting in Dallas, Texas, Bro. N.B. Hardeman was sitting in the lobby of the hotel, reading a newspaper. A fellow sitting nearby began a conversation and upon finding out that Hardeman was a preacher asked the question, "What is the meaning of 'water' when Jesus says to Nicodemus...(John 3:5). Bro. Hardeman looked at the man and said, "What does 'water' mean? It means buttermilk. This is clear and plain." The man said, "This is a novel interpretation. I've read many commentators and I've never heard this. Why do you say this?" "Well," replied Bro. Hardeman," if it says 'water' and most religious leaders say it couldn't mean what it says, then it might as well mean buttermilk as anything else and so I'll take my stand for buttermilk."
[from Sycamore Sunbeam]

WHICH TRANSLATION?
There are hundreds of translations of the Bible. Which is the best? the most accurate? the safest? That depends on who you talk to - even among legitimate scholars.

Of course one doesn't have to be a scholar to speak with certainty about versions. I've had people who wouldn't know an alpha from a slab of raw liver tell me authoritatively that a certain version is the only accurate one.

Impressive arguments can be marshalled for most of the committee-translated versions. Each has its strengths and weaknesses. I recently heard about a brother whose ministry consists of splitting over translations. That's sad. He has missed a basic teaching of the New Testament - which is clear in any translation. Hundreds of thousands don't yet have the scriptures in their own language. So, fellowship fights over translations strike me as a less-than-wise use of time, energy, influence and money.

Nevertheless, I'm taking a stand. And it's dogmatic! There is one version we must have. It's the one Paul talks about when he says, "...You show that you are a letter from Christ...written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God..."

There are thousands upon whom the translation debates are wasted, because they're not going to read any "written" version. But they can't keep from reading the WORD "translated" into life.

If conduct doesn't square with teaching it makes no difference how accurate the translation is you use. The jots and tittles may be there without a loss - but if the attitude is not Christ like something is lost in the translation which pollutes the message.

The only version some people read is YOU! Make sure it's true to the original.
[by Joe R. Barnett from the Broadway bulletin, July 25, 1976]

THE DIARY OF A BIBLE
Jan. 15...Resting for a week. First my owner read me regularly; New Year's resolution, I think.
Feb. 3...Owner picked me up and rushed off to Sunday School. Not opened.
Feb. 23...Cleaning day; dusted and put back in to my place.
April 2...Busy day, owner had to teach Wednesday night Bible class.
May 5,6,7...on Grandma's lap every afternoon now, a comfortable place.
July 1...Had a couple of four leaf clovers put into me today.
July 5...Packed into a trunk with a lot of other things. Off for a vacation.
July 10-20...Stayed in trunk. Almost everything else taken out.
July 25...Back home in my old place. Stuffy and hot. Two magazines and an old newspaper on top of me.
Aug. 9...Cleaning day; cleaned with special care. Heard them say, "The minister is coming to dinner."
Aug. 20...Owner wrote Grandma's death in my family record and left his glasses between my pages.
Dec. 31...Owner just found his glasses. I think he put me down on his New Year's resolutions.
[from Sycamore Sunbeam]

HOLY SPIRIT AND MIRACLES
1. Given in 2 ways. Baptism (Acts 2; Acts 11:15).
2. Could only be done by Christ. (Mark 1:8; Acts 2:33).
3. Could only be apostles. (John 16:13; Acts 1:5).  Why Gentiles? Acts 11:15-17...to prove acceptable
4. Always accompanied with tongues.
5. Not meant to forgive sins. (Acts 2).
6. Tongues could be given by apostles hands.
All miracles were to cease. (I Cor. 13:8-10).

Power from God to perform beyond your power...for those who believe. Power and strength are synonymous. The same power that raised Jesus from the dead. Phili. 3:10; Eph. 3:20-21; Phili. 4:13. With His power at work in you, you will be filled to the fullness of God - comes through faith and obedience. The task before us is never as great as the power behind us.

THANK YOU, GOD, FOR LITTLE THINGS
Thank you, God, for little things that often come our way.
The things we take for granted by don't mention when we pray.
The unexpected courtesy, the thoughtful kindly deed,
A hand reached out to help us in the time of sudden need -
Oh make us more aware, dear God, of little daily graces
That come to use with "sweet surprise" from never-dreamed-of places.
[by Helen Steiner Rice]

GOD IS LIKE
Bayer Aspirin, He works wonders.
Ford, He's got a better idea.
Dial, He gives you 'round the clock protection.
Coke, He's the real thing.
Pan Am, He makes the going great.
Scope, He makes you feel fresh.
G.E. Bulb, He lights our path.
Michigan Bell, There's more to Him than meets the ear.
Hallmark cards, He cared enough to send His very best.
[from Arlington church of Christ bulletin, vol. 3, Feb. 5, 1978]

THUS SPEAKETH CHRIST OUR LORD
Ye call me Master and obey me not,
Ye call me light and seek me not,
Ye call me Way and walk me not,
Ye call me Life and desire me not,
Ye call me Wise and follow me not,
Ye call me Fair and love me not,
Ye call me Rich and ask me not,
Ye call me Eternal and seek me not,
Ye call me Gracious and trust me not,
Ye call me Noble and serve me not,
Ye call me Mighty and honor me not,
Ye call me just and fear me not.
[from Arlington church of Christ bulletin vol. 3 Feb. 5, 1978]

IS IT IN THE BIBLE?
Quite often we hear a statement that sounds like a scripture - but it isn't! Test yourself on the following quotations. Some are Bible, and some are not.
1. All men are created equal.
2. An idle brain is the devil's workshop.
3. Spare the rod and spoil the child.
4. Give the devil his due.
5. God's will grinds slow, but sure.
6. Blood is thicker than water.
7. Lord, what fools these mortals be.
8. The time is out of joint.
9. Bread is the staff of life.
10. Familiarity breeds contempt.
11. God moves in mysterious ways, His wonders to perform.
12. God helps those who help themselves.
13. Charity begins at home.
14. To err is human, to forgive is divine.
15. All's well that ends well.
16. As you make your bed, you must lie in it.
17. Beauty is only skin deep.
18. Sweet are the uses of adversity.
19. The gift without the giver is bare.
20. Better half a loaf, than no loaf at all.
21. United we stand, divided we fall.
22. A liar will not be believed, even when he tells the truth.
23. There isn't one so blind as those who will not see.
24. Confession is good for the soul.
25. Honesty is the best policy.
26. Neither a borrower or a lender be.
27. I am escaped with the skin of my teeth.
28. Stolen waters are sweet.
Answers: 27. Job 19:20; 28. Prov. 9:17.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., July 31, 1994]

SOME PLAIN FACTS
This permissive age has produced a generation which neither knows nor cares about Bible principles or morality. Chastity, the sanctity of marriage, and purity of heart almost seem to be relics of another age. Our young people are growing up under constant suggestions from the media and many of their friends that in moral matters "each can do his own thing." Many people of more mature years are also affected. Here are some plain facts for young and old.

Fornication is sin. This means every kind of illicit sexual activity. The Bible is plain: Those who practice fornication cannot go to heaven (Gal. 5:19-21).

Homosexual activities are contrary to nature and God (Rom. 1:27). What is called "gay" will result in the damnation of hell.

Pornography is a medium for lust and lasciviousness. This applies to suggestiveness, lewdness, nudity, etc., whether in printing, movies, or television. Jesus said...(Matt. 5:28).

Things done in secret are never hidden. Actions too shameful to describe are sometimes done in secret (Eph. 5:12). Modern situations which provide privacy cause many to feel their sins are secret. God sees it all (Prov. 15:3). Every secret thing will be brought into judgment (Eccl. 12:14).

Love is not an excuse for sin. A typical defense for illicit sex is, "We love each other." At best this is self-deception. Love involves honor. In the highest sense of love, one will not cause the one he/she loves to do that which will put him/her in danger of the fires of hell. One should be honest enough to call things by their right names. It's not love, it's lust (Rom. 13:14)!

Married love is God's plan for sexual fulfillment (Heb. 13:4). The duties and privileges of the marriage relationship are clear (I Cor. 7:3-5). Husbands and wives are required by law (God's law) to love each other (Eph. 5:25, 28; Col. 3:18-19). Couples who "fall out of love" are not following God's plan.

Marriage is for life. No teaching of Christ is more plain than this (Matt. 19:3-9). Regardless of what counselors, lawyers, or judges might say, one who causes the breakup of marriage for any cause except fornication sins against God. If he/she marries another (except when the mate put away was innocent of fornication) it is adultery.

There are situations (caused by sinful attitudes, selfishness, hatefulness, etc.) when a couple cannot stay together, but they are still married to each other. Even if under civil law they are divorced they are not free to marry others. The same restrictions of fidelity apply as if they were still together. They have no more right to "court" or to contemplate another marriage than they would if they were happily living together (I Cor. 7:10-11).

There is never a marriage breakup without sin being involved. Both may not be guilty, but sin is an essential ingredient in divorce. It is tragic how casually some men and women hurt their mates, ruin their homes, and break the hearts of their children. It is more tragic when we consider the awful and eternal consequences of such callous disregard of the will of God (Heb. 10:30-31).

Marriages which are guided by the principles of Christ are happy marriages. Because human beings are involved there are often some stresses and strains. But principles as in Eph. 4:32; Eph. 5:22-23; I Pet. 3:1-8; Acts 20:35; Matt. 6:33; and Matt. 7:12 will show the way to overcome problems and to build happiness.
[by David Pharr, Christiansburg, Va. via North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla.]

THE CHURCH OF CHRIST
1. You may read about it in the Bible. (Rom. 16:16).
2. It has no creed but Christ, and binds no name on its members except the Divine. (Acts 11:26).
3. It speaks where the Bible speaks and is silent where the Bible is silent. (I Pet. 4:11).
4. It exalts Christ as the only head of the Church. (Col. 1:18; Eph. 1:22-23).
5. The church of Christ pleads for unity of all believers in Christ. (John 17:20-21; I Cor. 1:10).
6. It is not a denomination, nor a group of denominations, but simply the body of Christ. (Col. 1:18; Eph. 4:4-5).
7. Its founder is Christ Himself. (Matt. 16:18).
8. Its aim - to save souls by preaching the Gospel. (Rom. 1:16; Gal. 1:6-8).
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla, vol. 63, no. 31, Aug. 7, 1994, p. 1 [and] vol. 63 no. 28, July 17, 1994, p. 1]

ITEMS OF CHRISTIAN WORSHIP
1. Singing. (Col. 3:16; Eph. 5:19). This is the only music provided in the New Testament.
2. Prayer. (Acts 2:42; I Tim. 2:8).
3. Preaching and teaching the word of God. (Acts 20:7; Acts 2:42).
4. Lord's Supper. (Acts 20:7; I Cor. 11:23-28).
5. Giving according to prosperity. (I Cor. 16:1-3; II Cor. 1:8; II Cor. 9:6-7).
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla, vol. 63 no. 31 Aug. 7, 1994 p. 1]

A PROPHET-PREACHER'S TRIAL
(II Tim. 4:2-3).
Mythical Valley Church is having another problem, a serious problem this time. Twenty-eight members have launched a class-action suit against their minister, John Paul Amos, seeking huge compensation for emotional damages they claim they have suffered at his hands - more accurately, from his mouth.

Here is how it started. Several months ago, John Paul Amos gave his congregation a piece of his mind, blasting away in his morning sermon like an Old Testament prophet coming in from the wilderness with the word of the Lord. He preached against sin. That in itself would have created no problem, but he defined sin as watching wicked TV shows, listening to profane song lyrics (and singing with them), cheating the Lord out of His tithes, and messing around. Everyone translated "messing around" as "adultery" and thought they knew some of the guilty parties. Then the minister cracked the whip on divorce. That did it.

Twenty-eight offended members have now employed some expensive lawyers from a well-known law firm specializing in assorted personal damage cases. These worthies aren't arguing that the minister was wrong in what he said, but they claim that what he said upset their clients emotionally. Shouldn't people expect to be comforted and encouraged in church? One plaintiff testified that since that sermon he has not been able to relate meaningfully to his out-of-marriage lady friend. Three families have become uncomfortable while watching one of their favorite TV shows. Two couples almost at the point of finalizing divorces have become so upset they have had to resort to professional counseling and now have second thoughts about separating, having become "emotionally distressed" about their divorce plans.

John Paul Amos appears to have weakened his case by taking the witness stand to testify that he actually "intended to cause emotional distress." His tape-recorded sermon was admitted into evidence yesterday, and the jury exhibited considerable agitation while listening to it. One woman juror burst into tears when she heard the minister reading some Bible texts about sin and holiness. The chairman of the jury asked the judge for a recess immediately after the sermon was heard, saying the jury needed time to compose itself.

John Paul Amos said he would rather have caused members of the Mythical Valley Church to be emotionally distressed than for them to be in eternal distress.
(Isa. 55:11).
[from West Side Epistle via North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., vol. 63, no. 31, Aug. 7, 1994, p. 2]

INFLUENCE
Your influence is like your shadow. It may not always fall where you want it. Therefore, you need to be especially careful to see that wherever it falls, it will have a "good" effect on all. You may not be able to control the shadow, but you can control the one who casts the shadow. Make your influence count for God. Be not deceived! Others are being influenced by your example right now, this very hour.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., vol. 63, no. 31, Aug. 7, 1994, p. 2]

THERE IS ONLY ONE
The religious condition of America is confusion and division, with more than 250 different churches officially recognized by the government.
These churches teach conflicting doctrines about salvation. They do not all worship alike. They wear different names. And, there is a great variation in the way they are organized and governed.
Such confusion and division cannot be acceptable to God. The apostle Paul wrote that God is not the author of confusion (I Cor. 14:33), and Jesus prayed that all believers would be united (John 17:20-21).
Consider these Biblical revelations: (Matt. 16:18; Eph. 4:4; Eph. 1:22-23; Col. 1:18; Eph. 5:23; Acts 2:47).
In other words, these scriptures prove that Jesus built only one church. He is the head of that one church, and He is the Savior of that one church!
Jesus is not the founder, head, or Savior of all of the denominations that exist today. Denominationalism exists without the acceptance or approval of the Lord!
[by David Sain, Florence, Ala. from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., vol. 63, no. 31, Aug. 7, 1994, p. 4]

YOU HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY
While growing up, a lot of kids have a minimal interest in the Bible or in the church. The Bible, to many, is something that they respect as God's word, but not something that they feel a strong need to read on a regular basis. The church, for many, is where their friends sit through class and then socialize a little after services are over. For the most part, this was my attitude while growing up also.

When does a person finally realize that Christianity is something to be taken seriously? A person is at his or her best when he or she is being a Christian so that someone else may benefit. Preachers are extra careful with their morality so that they can effectively be ministers for Christ. Parents are hopefully trying to set a good example for their children. Christian teachers are hopefully trying to set a good example for the children that they teach. Jesus set the perfect example for all people desiring to do the will of God.

My point is, we are all at our best when we are being Christians for unselfish reasons. Is that not what Christianity is all about, helping others? If we can just recognize that we have a responsibility to be examples to others all of the time, then I believe there will be a lot less sin in our lives.

For those still in school, you owe it to your friends to be a good Christian example, because you may be their only way to see Christ. For those in the work force, you have the same responsibility to your co-workers. Let it be apparent that Christ is living in your life. (Matt. 5:14-16). Jesus taught the same principle, but with different words.
[from Holden Ave church of Christ, Newport, Ark. via North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Nov. 20, 1994, p. 4]

CHECKUP
A few weeks ago I went to my doctor for a routine examination. He checked everything, poking, thumping, taking x-rays, peering into my ears, eyes, nose, mouth.... Great fun! I was pronounced in good health, considering the shape I'm in!

In 1859, William Hunter wrote "The great Physician now is near, The sympathizing Jesus; He speaks the drooping heart to cheer: O hear the voice of Jesus." Although Jesus didn't consider himself a physician, he healed many of the maladies afflicting those he met. More importantly, he saw himself as one sent to deal with the spiritual infirmities of men. He did this through his proclamation of the "good news" of God's love for men and his desire to heal. (Luke 4:18-19).

Physicians consult available medical research for the best and most up-to-date information regarding the treatment of patients. When one visits his physician, he expects to get the very best the doctor and his staff have to offer in the way of knowledge and treatment. Certainly no human doctor, or his information, is infallible. But when we consider the spiritual healing power of Jesus, and the value of the word of God as spiritual medicine, we can have every confidence in our healing.

David, King of Israel, wrote...(Psa. 41:4). Spiritual healing involves the mercy of God in forgiving our offenses. In Matt. 9, Jesus said, in answering his critics' question about his association with people they saw as undesirables, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick." Spiritual illness is much more serious than physical illness. Again, Jesus said that the death of the physical body is to be feared less than the death of both body and soul (Matt. 10:28).

Not everyone is aware of or concerned about their need for spiritual well-being. Writing to his friend Gaius, the apostle John said...(III John 2). Asa, King of Judah, stricken with a severe disease in his feed...(II Chron. 16:12). How tragic when pride keeps us from the daily care of the One who is truly "the Great Physician."
[by Larry Sheehy, Statesboro, Ga. from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Nov. 20, 1994, p. 3]

YOUTH IS A STATE OF MIND
Youth is not a time of life; it is a matter of red cheeks, red lips and supple knees. It is a temper of the will; a quality of the imagination; a vigor of the emotions; it is a freshness of the deep springs of life. Youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over a life of ease. This often exists in a man of fifty more than a boy of twenty. Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years; people grow old by deserting their ideals.

Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. Worry, doubt, self-distrust, fear and despair - these are the long, long years that bow the head and turn the growing spirit back to dust.

Whether seventy or sixteen, there is in every being's heart a love of wonder; the sweet amazement at the star and starlike things and thought; the undaunted challenge of events, the unfailing childlike appetite for what comes next, and the joy in the game of life.

You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubts; as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fear; as young as your hope, as old as your despair.

In the central place of your heart there is a wireless station. As long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, cheer, grandeur, courage, and power from the earth, from men and from the infinite - so long are you young. When the wires are all down and the central laces of your heart are covered with the snows of pessimism and ice of cynicism, then you are grown old indeed!
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Nov. 13, 1994, p. 3]

THE CHURCH IS "US"
From the study of I Cor. 12 and Rom. 12, we learn that Christ's body, the church, is not one member but many. The church is all of us using our God-given talents and filling the roles He has blessed us with. Everything God created is perfect, and this includes the church. God ordained that every person whom He saves and adds to the body of Christ is important, and adds to the function of the entire church. The church is not the preacher. It is not the elders or the deacons or the teachers. The church is not the rich or the powerful or the talented. It is every member working together with God to fulfill His purpose in the earth. When the church fails to live up to her potential, it is because we have failed and not God. May each of us resolve to be a hand, a foot, an eye, or an ear, or whatever member of the body whereby we can glorify God.
[by Henry Halliburton Mainstream, Greenville, Ms via North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla, Nov. 13, 1994, p. 3]

ANY HAPPY MARRIAGES OUT THERE?
A minister and his wife from the Talladega church of Christ in Talladega, Alabama, recently won the Happy Marriage Contest in the June issue of Good Housekeeping magazine. They came in first out of 18,000 entries. They said the secret to the success of their 27 year marriage is...
We gave...when we WANTED to receive
We served...when we WANTED to feast
We shared...when we WANTED to keep
We listened...when we WANTED to talk
We submitted...when we WANTED to reign
We forgave...when we WANTED to remember
We stayed...when we WANTED to leave
Sounds like some good advice for a lot of us.
[by Pat Phillips from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Nov. 13, 1994, p. 4]

YES, ABORTION IS WRONG!
Recently we have heard some horrible things due to the action of some, who believe that wrong can correct wrong.

First, there was the killing of a doctor and his body guard, outside an abortion clinic in Pensacola, Florida. The man who was arrested and tried was found guilty of first degree murder, and sentence to death.

Then more recent was the shooting at the abortion clinics in Massachusetts and Virginia. This left two dead and several more injured.

In each of the above cases, the person responsible believed he was doing right by taking the law into his own hands. Anyone who knows the teachings of God's holy word, also knows that abortion is wrong, and is a sinful act. Yet, it is just as wrong and sinful to murder with a gun as it is with the abortion tools. Two wrongs doesn't make a right.

The killing of the unborn and the killing of the workers of the clinics are both sinful acts. The difference being that one type of murder is legal, the killing of the unborn, according to the laws of our nation. This in no way makes it right in God's sight. The killing of the workers is in violation of the laws of the land and the laws of God. This is not to say that God approves of what they do. They will get their due reward from Him, after the great judgment day.

God is concerned with the unborn and many passages reveal this concern. Even in the womb, David was considered a person. Yet, those who promote abortion speak of removing fetal tissue and never of a live human being. Jeremiah writing the words of God states...(Jer. 1:5).
(Prov. 6:16-19).
Seeing the way God looks upon the unborn, it is just as sinful to kill the unborn as it is to kill those already born. As Christians as must honor and respect God's laws and our opinions must correspond to His laws and will.

When Christians support those who promote abortions, then they have sinned. (Exo. 23:2). And the Christian must never support or condone those who take the law into their own hands.
[by Charles E. Burch, Sparta, Tenn. via North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla, Jan. 29, 1995, p. 3]

I SAW THE CROSS OF JESUS
I saw the cross of Jesus
When burdened with my sin;
I sought the cross of Jesus,
To give me peace within;
I brought my soul to Jesus,
He cleansed it in His blood;
And in the cross of Jesus
I found my peace with God.

I trust the cross of Jesus,
In every trying hour,
My sure and certain refuge,
My never failing tower,
In every fear and conflict,
I more than conqueror am;
Living, I'm safe, or dying,
Thro' Christ the risen Lamb.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Oct. 17, 1993, p. 3]

A SHORT SERMON
The WORD is solemn - therefore don't trifle.
The TASK is difficult - therefore don't relax.
The OPPORTUNITY is brief - therefore don't delay.
The PATH is narrow - therefore don't wander.
The PRIZE is glorious - therefore don't faint.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Oct. 17, 1993, p. 3]

BOUNDARIES OF GRACE
Salvation without grace is impossible. Grace is the foundation, the basis for man's redeption. (Eph. 2:8-9; Rom. 5:1-2). Were it not for God's love for man not a one could be saved. It was Jesus' death on Calvary that made our salvation possible. Without grace (God's unmerited favor) we would not stand a chance. We deserve eternal punishment and separation from God.

Because of God's grace we can be saved. But grace has boundaries. Now, let's be careful to understand what we are talking about. Grace is offered to all. Salvation is offered to all. But not all receive it. Not all are the beneficiaries of grace. God does not automatically save everyone by His grace. He saves those who are in Christ (Rom. 5:1-2; Gal. 3:26-28; Rom. 6:3-4). Thus, salvation is not by "grace only" in the commonly accepted denominational sense of the term. A person is saved by grace when he or she gets into Christ (John 14:6). This happens when we obey the gospel and are baptized into Jesus Christ (Mark 16:15-16). It is in this sense that we say that grace has boundaries.

We do no one any favors by pretending that grace "covers" people that it does not cover. A person who has not obeyed the gospel cannot hope to be covered by God's grace because that one is not in Christ (II Thes. 1:7-9). Just so, the unfaithful or rebellious Christian cannot hope in God's grace (Matt. 7:21-23). Now, I know when we falter because the faithful child of God has a penitent attitude and will repent. But the fellow who is trying to justify sin in his life (and hoping that grace will cover his sin that he loves and will not give up) has no hope revealed in the Book's pages.

And we do no one any favor by pretending that grace will cover sins that it will not cover. What sins? The sins man will not quit, the sins of which a person does not repent. I may not believe what I am doing is wrong. But it doesn't make any difference! Why? Because the way I ought to live is not to be derived from what I may or may not think! (Jer. 10:23; Col. 3:17). I must let myself be guided by God's Word (II Tim. 3:16-17). I am to do the Father's will! Jesus did! Grace will not cover me when I am doing what I want to do instead of what He wants me to do!

Grace saves. We will never give up that truth because the Bible teaches it plainly and clearly. But neither should we dilute the great strength and power of God's grace by extending its boundaries beyond those God has appointed.
[by Bill Irby from The Hobbs Street Herald via North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Oct. 17, 1993, p. 3]

PREPARATIONS FOR WORSHIP
"Worship" means reverence, to stand in owe (we often sing, "I stand amazed in the presence"), to adore. This is what God asks of us. It is an attitude, a mind-set, for which the individual is responsible. If worship seems dull, boring and unexciting perhaps you need to look into your heart and examine your motives.

Worship is not merely attending (being present) when worshipful activities are taking place. There may be non-Christians present who cannot worship God or even those who show up hoping for a handout (some of these are present at assemblies more than some of the saints). Those who only attend do not worship.

To truly worship we must prepare our hearts ahead of time. We must desire and look forward to this great experience (Psa. 122:1).

We cannot worship by merely turning our attention on at 10:30 and off at 11:30. We must come to the assembly with clean hands and pure heart (Psa. 66:18). Confusion, personal animosity and such like must be solved in our own hearts. If I have something against a brother, I cannot worship until I make it right (Matt. 5:23-25).

Improvement in worship is in the heart of the worshipper. Real joy and excitement come, not by physical things, but by my own joy and excitement of worship. Ask yourself some important questions: Do I feel closer to God? Do I love my Lord and his church more? Is heaven a greater desire? Do I feel compelled to win lost souls? Do I eagerly anticipate the next assembly? Do I deeply desire to purge myself from sin? Proper answers to these important questions will do more to improve your worship than anything else.
[by Don McWhorter of Christiansburg, Va. from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Oct. 24, 1993, p. 3]

STRONG ON WATER
The devil has many devices (II Cor. 2:11), and one of his devices is to keep a sinner from contacting the blood of Christ, for without the blood of Christ one cannot be saved (Heb. 9:22; I Pet. 1:18-19; Acts 20:28). Satan knows that only in baptism can the sinner contact the saving blood of Christ (Rom. 6:1-4; I Pet. 3:21; Mark 16:16). Therefore, through his servants he makes continual attacks against the necessity of baptism, in order that one may be saved from his past or alien sins (Acts 2:38).

Some denominational preachers ridicule the church, saying "You people are strong on water; whatever you preach turns into water. All false churches are strong on water."
The Bible is "Strong on Water"

1.	The Flood. Many centuries before Christ came to earth, the human race became so wicked that God determined to destroy man. He said to Noah...(Gen. 6:17). However, the same water that destroyed the wicked world also saved Noah and his family. Thus...(I Pet. 3:20-21).
2.	The Ministry of John. John preached water baptism "for the remission of sins" (Mark 1:4). John baptized at Henon, because there was much water there" (John 3:23). The crowning of John's service was the baptism of Christ in the Jordan river (Matt. 3:13-17).
3.	The Book of Acts. Christ commissioned His apostles...(Mark 16:16). The book of Acts is the account of how they fulfilled this work. Everywhere they went they preached and practiced water baptism! Peter asked at Cornelius' home...(Acts 10:47). The eunuch and Philip "came to a certain water" (Acts 8:36). Saul was commanded to...(Acts 22:16). New Testament conversion was so "strong on water" that it always included water baptism! If one preaches the New Birth he preaches water, for Jesus said...(John 3:5).

Is this "water salvation?" Do we believe that there is some sort of magical efficacy in water? Not at all! We believe, for the Bible teaches it, that the love of God, faith, repentance, confession that Christ is the Son of God, and the blood of Christ are all essential to our salvation. But we also recognize that baptism is also essential to our salvation! The New Testament commands baptism, and when we preach this, we are preaching obedience to God. If this is treason, or "water salvation," we plead guilty. There are some preachers who are so strongly against water that they deny what the scripture plainly teaches!
[by Garland Elkins from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Oct. 24, 1993, p. 3]

FLY LIKE AN EAGLE
High upon a tree lived a mother eagle with a nest of eagle eggs. One day after the mother eagle flew off to find food, the wind blew one of the eggs out of the nest. Fortunately, the egg landed in the nest of a prairie chicken. Since prairie chickens don't fly, they hatch their eggs in nests on the ground. The mother prairie chicken returned to her nest and sat on the eagle egg along with all the prairie chicken eggs.

When the little eagle broke free from it's shell the first thing he saw was a bunch of little prairie chickens and the mother prairie chicken. The little eagle assumed he was a prairie chicken. The little eagle learned to walk like a prairie chicken, squawk like a prairie chicken, and do all the things that prairie chickens do.

One day the little eagle sat on a rock with one of his prairie chicken friends. Overhead a beautiful bald eagle soared. The little eagle pointed toward the sky and said to the prairie chicken, "look at that bird, I would give anything to be able to fly like that." The prairie chicken said to the eagle, "Do not give it a second thought, you are a prairie chicken" and the eagle never did.

The moral of this story is that all through your life people will tell you that you are a prairie chicken, that you can not do it, that you are not good enough. Yet God made you an eagle, you are good enough, now go fly like an eagle.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Oct. 24, 1993, p. 4]

GARTH BROOKS, YOU, AND JESUS
Tuesday was a real eye opener for me. I was studying with Rosanne Richeson's boys, Robbie and Bill. During the course of the study I mentioned that you'd better watch who you choose as heroes, because you'll become like the people you admire the most. At that, Robbie, in his smirk, innocent little grin, said, "I have three." "Oh," I said, "who might that me?" I asked (thinking I'd hear something like Hulk Hogan, Arnold, or Raphael, the Ninja Turtle). "Garth Brooks, you, and Jesus!" "Oh," I said, "that's really interesting...." All the time I was thinking to myself, "Wow, quite a crowd to be included in, what should I say now!?" Garth Brooks, you, and Jesus?! Sort of takes the wind out of your sails for a minute or so.

But then I thought, Wow, what a responsibility! Here's a young heart, searching and hungering for eternal life, and he sees me as a real life hero! Doesn't he know how short I fall of the glory of God? Certainly he must be mistaken. Didn't he just hear me when I warned him, "Choose your heroes carefully, because you'll become like the people you admire the most?"
Then I thought, hey, isn't this the way its supposed to be? (Heb. 13:7). Young hearts can challenge us in ways no one else can.
As adults and as teenagers, we need to realize that all those young hearts are tuned in to our lives and watching us carefully! Imitating us, putting us on the pedestals as their heroes. I think that's OK! If not us, who? (II Tim. 4:16). Next time you ask a young heart who their heroes are, you might just hear what I heard, "Garth Brooks, you, and Jesus!"
[by Greg King from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Sept. 26, 1993, p. 3]

MAKING THE EXTERNALS WORK FOR YOU : A CHECKLIST FOR IMPROVING A VISITOR'S FIRST IMPRESSION
The early Christians met in the catacombs which were hard to find, dark, and had poor parking. Yet the Christians who met there attracted others to their movement by their strong commitment, personal testimony, exemplary lives, and willingness to suffer. These same factors can help us grow too.

There are, however, some externals surrounding our services which, though must less important, are of benefit. The impression made on visitors in their first few minutes with us is vital in determining whether they are likely to return.

Attention to some seemingly minor details can make a big difference both on the substance and the appearance of our services. So, here are some suggestions to check out. A group of elders, deacons, or families might review this check list and ask, "What can we do better?"
1. Does your yard and the entrance to your building convey a positive image? Is it clean and mowed? Are there some shrubs, trees and well-kept flowers to make it attractive to those who pass or who visit?
2. Is the exterior of your building well kept so that it demonstrates your deep commitment to what you are doing? (Walk around the outside of your building using the "eyes of a visitor.")
3. Do you have an up-to-date, attractive, easy to read sign? Does it tell when your services are, the name of your ministers, and a phone number to use in case someone wants to call?
4. Do you have a clearly designated area for visitors' parking?
5. When visitors enter your lobby, do they find a friendly greeting from warm people? Do they find in your lobby indications that you are an active working group, deeply involved in doing what God has called Christians to do? (A few old, out-of-date items on a messy bulletin board does not deserve a "yes" to this question.)
6. Does the guest to your services quickly get good instructions about where each member of the family should attend class and is someone on hand to take them?
7. Do the Bibles and song books in the rack signal that you are a church that takes good care of its property and does things well?
8. Is the front of your auditorium decorated with some attractive flowers or plants that are clean and in style and which do not distract from the service?
9. Is the lighting in your building helpful to the service? Does it pull the eye toward the pulpit area? Does it create a pleasant and happy mood? Does it give enough light to read a Bible and the song book?
10. Is the background behind the pulpit pleasant to look at for an hour or is it "too busy" and a strain on the eyes? (Faded curtains, peeling paint, or worn carpet on the steps count off.)
11. Does your speaker system work so well in giving a necessary boost to the voice that it goes unnoticed? (If it is often not "on" when the service starts, often gives "feedback" or static, picks up the local police band, or is not adjusted up and down during the service to fit different voices, it is time to do better. If it is not turned down once the song leader announces a number and starts the song, it will likely drown out the congregational singing.)
12. Are those who lead the service notified in advance and prepared for what they are to do?
13. Are visitors made to feel welcome and is an effective record kept of their visits for immediate follow-up?
14. Are there any places in the carpet, walls, or ceiling of your building you would rather not show your mother if she were coming?
15. Are restrooms clean and well supplied?
We know the heart of our service should be thoughtful prayers, singing with the spirit and understanding, a Lord's supper focused on the sacrifice of Christ, cheerful giving, and a message that inspires and encourages. Sometimes, however, less important things can stand in the way of our worship and in the way of making a visitor decide to return.
[by Stafford North from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Sept. 26, 1993, p. 4]

MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT THE CHRIST
(Mark 12:35-37).

I.	The Jews expected the messiah to be much like his ancestor, ___ (II Sam. 7:12-16; Mark 11:10).
II.	One reason many Jews could not bring themselves to accept Jesus is because they read the Bible ___ (Cf. Mark 11:10; Isa. 53; I Tim. 5:23; I Cor. 6:11; Acts 20:7; Acts 2:46-47; II Tim. 2:15).
III.	There are still misconceptions about the Christ today.
	A.	One is that he came to ___ a multitude of religious ___ (Matt. 16:18; Eph. 4:4-6; Matt. 7:21-23).
	B.	A second is that what Jesus accepts as ___ and ___ changes with the times (Heb. 13:8).
	C.	Another is that we can ___ ___ from Jesus as we can from others (Luke 12:1-3; Heb. 4:13).
	D.	A fourth is that he demands no ___ or ___ from us, and will take ___ place in our lives (Matt. 6:33).
	E.	Some seem to think either he will not ___ to ___ us, or that we'll have plenty of time to ___ ___ (Luke 12:35-40; II Pet. 3:9-11; II Cor. 5:10; Mark 16:16; Rev. 2:10).

FIVE KEYS TO PERCEPTION
1. Perception is the key to attitudes, motivation and behavior in human beings. We must understand the content of the behavior to deal with it effectively.
2. Perception is a product of four steps in a learning process: EIAG: Experience - Identify - Analyze - Generalize, or Experience + What? Why? and How?
3. Perception is unique. No two people ever see or feel the same thing. The two sweetest phrases in the human language are: What is your understanding of...? and "Let me be sure I understand...."
4. Perception is cumulative.
5. Support must precede challenge.

THE LETTER YOU DID NOT WRITE
I meant to write! I really did! Each morn I'd say,
"Today I'll get the pen and paper out and sent that note away."
So many tasks! My day was full. The months flew swiftly by.
"Tomorrow I must write for sure." Each nightfall I would sigh.
The sad thing is, I really cared! He meant so much to me.
He was the dearest friend I knew. How close he'd grown to be.
But then the years came crowding in. Somehow we drew apart.
Yet I so often thought of him and kept him in my heart.
I meant to write! I really did! So many times I tried.
And now today I get the news my dear friend has died.
They say he watched the mail each day for one that bore my name.
I could not write - too busy far with family, wealth and fame.
They say he died a lonely man. No other friend had he.
While I had friends and loved ones, too, to keep me company.
If only I had written him a little line or two,
to say I missed his firm handclasp, his friendship tried and true.
But now I cannot write to him. He's gone, he'll never know
how much he's missed. If you have friends please write and tell them so.
A little line can mean so much to old friends everywhere,
If you will just sit down and write, and tell them that you care.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., vol. 62, no. 35, Sept. 12, 1993, p. 3]

LICKING THE BLADE
Paul Harvey tells how an Eskimo kills a wolf. He coats his knife with blood and lets it freeze. Then he adds another coat of blood and then another. As each coat freezes he adds another smear of blood until the blade is hidden deep within a substantial thickness of frozen blood.

Then he buries the knife - blade up - in the frozen tundra. The wolf catches the scent of fresh blood and begins to lick it. He licks it more and more feverishly until the blade is bare. Then he keeps on licking harder and harder. Because of the cold he never notices the pain of the blade till he bleeds to death, swallowing his own life.

That is the way the devil works on us. He gives us a taste of sin knowing we will crave more. We go deeper and deeper in satisfying our desires. We never notice the blade inside till it is too late. Only when we are dying do we realize we have swallowed our own life in sin.
[by Dale Wells from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., vol. 62, no. 35, Sept. 12, 1993, p. 1]

ONE MAY GO TO HEAVEN...
...without health and without wealth;
...without fame or a great name;
...without culture, without friends;
...without a thousand other things.
But one can never go to heaven
without Christ.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., vol. 62, no. 35, Sept. 12, 1993, p. 3]

FOOD FOR THOUGHT
Are we tempted to follow worldly ways using the excuse "everyone is doing it" so it must be all right? We haven't experienced much disregard for the respect God's presence should command, but there are times when we need to examine our motives for behavior.

When we come together to worship God and remember our Lord's death, our frame of mind will be determined by the importance we place on the event. Disney World requires semi-formal attire for its guests on "Grad Night" (when high school graduation classes are invited for an evening). Their reasoning is that people behave in a different manner depending upon their attire.

We are not suggesting that church members must be dressed formally or even semi-formally. If the best one has is a pair of overalls or a feed sack dress, he or she is attired in the finest in God's sight. God looks upon the heart. However, we do need to teach our young people and remember ourselves that worshipping is a serious event and should not be treated as a picnic or ballgame. And, of course, modesty and good judgment in how we present ourselves at all times is a most important consideration for the Christian.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Sept. 5, 1993, p. 3]

AND GOD SAID, "NO"
I asked God to take away my pride, and God said, "No."
He said it was not for Him to take away but for me to give up.
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole, and God said, "No."
He said her spirit is whole, her body is only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience, and God said, "No."
He said that patience is a by-product of tribulation. It isn't granted, it's earned.
I asked God to give me happiness, and God said, "No."
He said He gives blessings, but happiness is up to me.
I asked God to spare me pain, and God said, "No."
He said, "Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me."
I asked God if He loved me, and God said, "Yes."
He gave His only Son to die for me, and I will be in heaven someday because I believe.
I asked God to help me love others as much as He loves me,
And God said, "Ah, finally you have the idea."
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Sept. 5, 1993, p. 3]

THREE C'S
I saw a man die. As the doctor left the room, and the dying man knew that the end of his life was near, he patted his wife's hand and whispered, "You've been sweet to me." Even in death, he sought to make her happy - to say something she would remember for the rest of her life. And, she was comforted.

There are no unimportant days in a marriage. Every day is a lifetime unto itself. Every moment is important. Each member of the marriage partnership is bound by God to love the other (Eph. 5:25; Titus 2:3-4). If the husband wants to be happy, he must work to make his wife happy. If the wife wants to be happy, she must work to make her husband happy (I Cor. 7:3-5). It takes kind words, tender touches, smiles, expressions of appreciation, and honesty. Often, it takes sacrifice and pain. Courtesy, counsel, and consideration are three important "C's" in a happy marriage (Eph. 5:22-28).

It's not hard to have a happy marriage. Just think of yourself - think of what your heart needs, how you want to be treated, and the things that make you happy. Our creator knew that you needed these things (Gen. 2:18-24). Think of what you need - and then give it to your mate.

Crowd every bit of happiness that you can into every day. A lifetime of happiness awaits the husband and wife who give their thoughts, attention, and actions to each other, their children, and their God. It's God's plan for your marriage. As Winston Churchill said: "Never, never, never, give up" (I Cor. 11:11-12).
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Sept. 5, 1993, p. 4]

OOPS!
A preacher in a small community decided he had preached at the same place long enough. After informing the congregation of his intent to move, he took a small notice of his resignation to the local newspaper. He was dismayed when the news item ran exactly as he had written it, but put in the column under the heading "Public improvements."
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Sept. 5, 1993, p. 4]

THE MEASURE OF SUCCESS OF A FAMILY
The measure of success of a business is profit. Even as consumers, we expect a margin of profit to be built into the price of all goods and services we consume. (Some people, of course, are so single-sighted on profit that their products or services are shoddy and they eventually go bankrupt.)

The measure of success of a family is happiness! I have surveyed children to find what things that their fathers provided for them that they valued: "What is the one thing that your daddy does for you that you like the most?" Two-thirds of the kids always list something daddy does with them over some thing daddy gives to them. Instead of more stuff, some children need to see more of their parents!

A family can operate "in the red" or "in the black" just like a business. How are things going at your house?
How happy is your family?
You may be richer than you think.
[by Doug Greenway from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Sept. 5, 1993, p. 4]

I HAVE A DREAM
Great men and women have great visions and are willing to give all they have toward making those hopes come true.

The agony and vehemence of one such person is recorded by Luke in Acts 26 as the apostle Paul says to King Agrippa...(Acts 26:29). Paul again pours out one of the greatest dreams of his heart as he pens in the Roman letter...(Rom. 9:2-3) and thus he pours out his longing that they might accept Paul's Christ. Yes, great people have great dreams and are willing to give their all to make them come true.

In our own age, daily the newspapers and TVs scream of protest, of thievery, of drunkenness, drug addiction, sex and homosexuality. Our whole civilization seems to be disintegrating while dusty Bibles lie brimming with helps for better living. Results of studies coming in, point accusing fingers at the breakdown of the home as the greatest single offender.

I have a dream, that Christian parents will search the scriptures for help in guiding our children toward mature Christians. Pray that our nation's morals might improve, learn to demonstrate true love in action and that sincere prayer might become a reality in the lives of God's people.
[from The Informer, Vero Beach, Fla., vol. 4, no. 21, May 24, 1972, p. 4]

Pray for one another. There can be little division between brethren when they are praying sincerely for each other.
Pray for great things. When people are unified in purpose they will soon be working toward attaining the desired goal.
Pray for God's aid. When we realize we are allies of God, we will endeavor to live up to his standard in everything.
[from The Informer, Vero Beach, Fla., vol. 4, no. 21, May 24, 1972, p. 2]

CAN WE MEASURE?...
How big is a Christian's heart?
I cannot tell,
But it measures enough to go
Where the needy dwell.

How wide is a Christian's house?
I cannot say,
But a lonely dependent child
Can come in and stay.

How strong is a Christian's faith?
I feel secure,
When I say it is strong enough
To relieve the poor.

How great is a Christian's task?
I do not know.
But the heart and the faith decide
Where the strength must go.

How long is a Christian's love?
Ask me no more;
It begins at his home
And leads to eternity's door.
[from The Informer, Vero Beach, Fla., vol. 4, no. 21, May 24, 1972, p. 2]

GRIPE! GRIPE! GRIPE!
Gripe! Gripe! Gripe! Have you ever known someone like that? I saw a sign on a desk several weeks ago that read, "If you came here to complain you have already used up 98% of your time. I would like to suggest that you use the other 2% to find the door..." People just don't like complainers.

Dr. Everett Ferguson, professor of Bible at Abilene Christian University, write the following article that I believe will serve as an excellent reminder for us as we strive to reflect the Son in our Thanksgiving.

Someone has suggested that instead of having one day a year designated as Thanksgiving we should have one day a year for complaining and limit our complaints to that one day. The Bible teaches us to be thankful all the time. (Psa. 30:12; Eph. 5:20).

We human beings seem to need special days to remind us of things we ought to remember all the time. The church has a weekly day of thanksgiving, not just a yearly. The noun for thanksgiving was the most common word in the second century for the Lord's Supper (Matt. 26:27; I Cor. 11:24). As we give thanks for the bread and fruit of the vine, we are reminded of all God's blessings. Thanksgiving, gratitude, is the appropriate attitude for believers in the presence of the Lord.

It was the custom in the ancient world that a person did not say "thank you" with an empty hand. The words were supported by a gift as a token of appreciation. In the contribution we express our thanksgiving to God with voluntary gifts.
[by David Shelburne from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Nov. 21, 1993, p. 4]

IS IT FUN AND EXCITING?
For a growing number, including some Christians, the only qualification for acceptance or rejection of any behavior before God is expressed in the words, "Is it fun and exciting?" This is heard in conversations of the young, but it is disappointing and less excusable in the lives of those who are old and should know better. With Paul, we must say these are "yet carnal" or worldly (I Cor. 3:3).

This attitude is affecting the church for which Christ died (Acts 20:28). In many localities there are those who refuse to attend Bible classes because they say it is "dullsville." This is a bad reflection on the speaker and not on the Bible, the class, or the teacher. Others do not attend worship period (unless some special entertainment is announced) because they "do not get anything out of it" and especially when there is something "more exciting" to do. They ignore many passages about putting God and his kingdom first, not forsaking the assembling of the saints, and that worship must be directed to God in spirit and in truth (Matt. 6:33; Heb. 10:25; John 4:23-24).

Marriages are strongly affected by this attitude. Some after only a few months divorce their mates, rending many hearts, because one participant feels things just are not "fun and exciting" anymore. Then these look for a preacher who will deny the Lord's simple teaching on marriage, divorce, and remarriage (Matt. 19:8-9; Rom. 7:1-4), so they may feel good about finding another mate who is more "fun and exciting". The tragedy is hireling preachers can be found who will say nothing, if the price is right.

Vows do not seem to mean much to these people. Not only is the marriage vow soon "forgotten," but many seem to take lightly their vow to serve the Lord. The good confession flies quickly from the mind of some, who are...(Luke 8:14). When these are urged to live pure lives; teach a Bible class; serve at the Lord's table; visit the sick and needy; prepare the building for worship services (or close it afterwards); teach a neighbor or invite them to services; speak to visitors; or a host of other small but important duties of Christians; they respond in word or by attitude, that this is not "fun and exciting" to me anymore. These have left their first love and need to repent (Rev. 2:4-5). Their promise (vow) to serve the Lord has to be "some great thing," never difficult, and always "fun and exciting," or they will defect from the Lord's army!

Of course, for those who study and believe the Bible, it is known that there are responsibilities legislated by the Lord for which we are accountable (Matt. 28:20). These come because of our God-given abilities and opportunities. He has the sovereign right to call us into account for that which he has given to us. Paul's words must continually ring in our ears...(Rom. 14:12).

Let us take a close look at our own attitude about the work of the Lord. Let us "walk in the light" that we may have pure fellowship with other faithful Christians (I John 1:7-9). Am I a soldier of the cross, a follower of the Lamb? Or do I search only for that which is "fun and exciting"?
[by Gary Colley from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Nov. 21, 1993, p. 4]

IS IT NOT WORTH THE EFFORT?
So often the ole Devil seeks to discourage us by hindering the Lord's work. He is a master at discouraging the brethren. He knows every trick and ploy. So often godly saints want to quit and say..."It is not worth the effort..."

Often elders grow discouraged because sheep stray and reject all efforts to restore them. Many members could care less that brethren grow weak and die spiritually, so they become grounds of discouragement by hindering the reclamation and discipline of lost members. Elders often feel..."It is not worth the effort..."

Often deacons grow discouraged because so few will cooperate with them in getting the job done. Other deacons do not bear their fair share of the load and this discourages too. They say too..."It is not worth the effort..."

Often Bible school teachers grow discouraged. Students do not study their lessons, and if comments are made, half are wrong or off the point! Many act as if Bible study is an "optional expedient" instead of "growth unto salvation." Then the old expression arises..."It is not worth the effort..."

Often preachers despair. People often fail to react as they should to the word. Preachers words and actions are often misunderstood, misrepresented or actually opposed, so he becomes discouraged. After years of study, application and faithful service a handful of brethren can destroy the preacher's work by getting the ear of the eldership, so the preacher says..."It is not worth the effort..."

All of us have felt this on occasions about something we are doing for the Lord's cause. But through it all we must remember that what we do, we do for God! Many times it takes tremendous effort to preserve in our work in the Kingdom. Only those who have been there really understand the unremitting toil, sacrifice, time and effort and even money it takes to continually achieve for the Master (in any of the above roles). No one else may even notice, much less sympathize or help.

But God notices.
God cares.
God is concerned and
God will ultimately make it all right.

It may not be worth the effort if it is for money we serve or for favor or popularity or for any of a hundred other reasons. But for God it is worth it! Hang in there!
[by Andrew M. Connally from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Nov. 14, 1993, p. 3]

A GUIDE TO GOOD LIVING
1. Learn to laugh; a laugh is better than medicine.
2. Learn to mind your own business; few people can handle their own well.
3. Learn to say kind things; nobody ever resent them.
4. Learn to stop grumbling; if you can't see any good in the world, keep the bad to yourself.
5. Learn to love other people; this is a doorway to the Kingdom.
6. Learn to place yourself in the other person's position before condemning; it might change your whole outlook.
7. Learn the great lessons of the Bible; no greater lessons can be learned!
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Nov. 14, 1993, p. 3]

THE NOTE ON THE DOOR
(This is a true story.)
Love dwindled, unhappiness and dissatisfaction grew, daily fussing and fighting characterized the relationship of the husband and wife and ultimately a divorce wrecked the home leaving two bewildered, emotionally scarred children in its wake. The father gained custody and the mother went her own way, doing her own thing.

The children loved their mother. Strange thing about love - it's so often blind to the faults of those we love. Months went by and the mother longed to see her children. She mustered up the courage to visit. Leaving her car at the curb, she walked to the front door only to find no one at home. But posted on the door was a note from the youngest of her two boys, the seven-year old. It read, "Mother, I'm at the park. Please come to the park." She hurriedly made her way to the park, and there sure enough, was the little fellow. After the preliminary hugs and kisses, the mother, still amazed by the note, said, "Honey, how did you know I was coming to see you today?"

"Oh, I didn't," he answered.
"But, what made you put the note on the door if you didn't know I was coming?"
In response, the love-straved little one said, "I put a note on the door every day, every time I leave, 'cause I knew you'd be coming to see me."
"I knew you'd be coming to see me!" I wonder if there are not those out there - life's rejects, those hurt by cruel circumstances, those whose life seems to be hopelessly going nowhere, those groping for some spiritual meaning in their lives, who are daily placing a note on the door which reads, "I'm not at home just now, but please - PLEASE - come find me!"

The world is filled with people who do not know who they need to talk to or just how to solve their heavy, seemingly unbearable problems, but they are confident that someone, somewhere has those answers and that someone cares enough to go looking for them.

Someone is waiting for you! Christians with the Good Book in their hands and love in their hearts have those answers. On someone's door out there is a note which reads, "I knew you'd come looking for me." Let's not fail them. Out there, somewhere, someone is waiting for you.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Oct. 31, 1993, p. 3]

UNITED OR UNTIED?

In the church bulletin, a hurried secretary typed "the church was untied" instead of "the church was united." Think carefully. What was out of place? The "I" was.
If ever a congregation needs to be united in purpose and goals, it is the church here....
Certainly, this is not a perfect church, for if it were, then where would we attend? Imperfect as it is, (for it is made of imperfect people saved by God's love), it is imperative that we love and appreciate one another.

Many battles have been lost because God's people did not know the opponent's strategy. Satan has a plan for the church too.
1) he wants to keep people out of the church.
2) he wants to get people out of the church.
3) he wants to render those in the church helpless.

One of the ways Satan renders the church helpless is by promoting church disunity. Now I know that you would never be guilty of those things, but, in case you are ever confronted by one who is guilty of contributing to disunity by any of these: vain speculation, second guessing, criticism, a negative attitude, or fault finding, etc. do this; refuse to participate. Ask yourself: Have I been out of place? Is the church united or untied?
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Oct. 31, 1993, p. 3]

BASIC COW
There is a story about an old rancher who had been "taken to the cleaners" several times by a local car salesman. One day, the car dealer called the rancher to say he was coming out to buy a cow. The rancher placed the following information on the cow:

Basic cow 500.00
Two-tone exterior 45.00
Extra stomach 75.00
Product storing compartment 60.00
Straw chopper 120.00
Four spigots @ $10.00 ea. 40.00
Genuine cowhide upholstery 125.00
Dual horns 15.00
Automatic fly-swatter 38.00
Fertilizer attachment 185.00
Total $1,233.00

Those little extras sure add up. But think of all the extras God gives - air to breathe, trees, grass, lakes, mountains, friends, family, His Word, spiritual blessings. Aren't you glad He doesn't charge for the "extras"? Enjoy the "extras" and thank God for them.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Mar. 22, 1992, p. 3]

A healthy congregation is a working congregation. Preventative medicine: teaching, visiting, benevolence, worship, giving.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Mar. 22, 1992, p. 3]

UP TO YOU
Have you made someone happy,
Or made someone sad,
What have you done
With the day you had?
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Mar. 22, 1992, p. 3]

NEW TESTAMENT CHRISTIANITY
The principle of New Testament Christianity comes from a concept clearly based upon the scriptures. If we accept the idea that the Church was founded in Jerusalem in A.D. 33 as described in Acts 2, we must agree that it's establishment was totally guided by God through the Holy Spirit.

Acts 2 begins with the Apostles gather in the upper room for the purpose of waiting for God's instructions. The Holy Spirit appeared to them in cloven tongues giving them miraculous power. They immediately received inspiration and began to teach as the Lord had earlier directed. (Matt. 28:18-20). As they taught the truth concerning the death of Christ, the hearers became convicted of their sins and requested further information. (Acts 2:37).

Peter, the spokesman, told them to...(Acts 2:38). (Acts 2:41). The passage continues to describe this group as...(Acts 2:47).

Thus the church was established by God's direction. It was complete and no change was warranted. Thus, New Testament Christianity is the practice of people in the 20th century going back to the Bible as the basis of everything we believe and teach. The Bible warns us against adding to the plan or taking away from it. (Gal. 1:6-9; II John 9-11; Rev. 22:18-19).

When a preacher or religious group deviates from the plan set forth in the scriptures, it ceases to be the church of the New Testament and becomes a denomination. It is impossible to be a denomination and the church of the Bible at the same time.

The plea is to go back before the denominations to the New Testament as a basis of everything we believe, teach, or practice.
[by Bill Hopkins from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Mar. 22, 1992, p. 4]

AFTER EVERY WEDDING COMES THE MARRIAGE?
I've heard of "shotgun weddings" before, but this is going too far.... The beautiful bride and the glowing groom had recited their vows, pledged their devotion, and affirmed their faithfulness to each other. The intimate ceremony had proceded in the presence of about 30 friends and relatives in a picture-perfect setting on a quaint front porch in Tampa, Florida.

The wedding went well. The reception went wild! The newly married couple evidently got into their first fight as husband and wife. The groom got a plate of macaroni salad thrown in his face. The bride got a bullet in her stomach.

Friends say they still weren't sure what happened. One lady who lives across the street expressed her surprise this way: "It looked like everything was going real good. Their wedding cake was gorgeous..." Pretty cake for the reception. Pretty bad start for the relationship. She got a slug instead of a hug. He's more than a mate, he's an inmate. They both missed their honeymoon. She went to the hospital, he went to jail.

What's the point? Simply this: "You can't judge a couple by the cake." After every wedding comes the marriage. And there's more than one way to be shot down by your spouse.

The word and will of our God rings loud and clear...(Psa. 127:1). The Master is the only One who can turn a marital mess into a masterpiece. The best duet is always a trio. (Eccl. 4:12).

In a practical way, how can you let the Lord of life and love strengthen your marriage relationship? Here's one idea that fits well with the ministry and message of Jesus. I discovered this insight for building intimacy in a most unusual place - on an individual package of salad dressing. As I read the directions for dispensing the contents of the package, I realized I was reading the directions for a growing, healthy marriage. Are you ready? Brace yourself. Here it is: "Squeeze and serve."

Squeeze and serve. Hug them and help them. Love them and lead them. Embrace and encourage. Kiss and care. Squeeze and serve. There's one secret for success. It will get you through the wedding ceremony and through your 50th wedding anniversary celebration.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., May 30, 1993, p. 3]

AN EVEN DOZEN
If you figure that an egg carton could hold each answer, you'll have eggs-actly what you need to solve the puzzle.
1. Number of baskets left over when Jesus fed 5,000 people. (John 6:13).
2. The age of Jairus's daughter when Jesus raised her from the dead. (Luke 8:42).
3. Number of apostles Jesus chose. (Mark 3:14).
4. Number of tribes in Israel. (Gen. 49:28).
Total your answers and divide by 4. What's unique about this puzzle?
[by Melissa Lane from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., May 30, 1993, p. 3]

Before you speak: THINK.
T - Is it true?
H - Is it helpful?
I - Is it important?
N - Is it necessary?
K - Is it kind?
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., May 30, 1993, p. 3]

HOW TO HELP A GRIEVING FRIEND
1. People who are grieving don't need to be "fixed". They just need to be listened to. Their brain is fine; it's their heart that's broken. Try to provide a non-judgemental ear.
2. Avoid cliche's such as, "Time heals all wounds". Though recovery from anything can take time, time doesn't heal...time passes. If you're at a loss for words, simply say, "I'm sorry about your loss."
3. Avoid making statements in which you try to identify with the grief, such as, "I know how you feel." You can't know how they feel, because they are experiencing emotions that are unique to them.
4. Don't try to help a grieving friend by trying to replace a loss. Pet owners are some of the most abused grievers on the planet. If your mom died, people wouldn't tell you to go out and get another mom. Replacing a loss doesn't work.
5. Be aware that holidays and significant anniversary dates can be especially difficult times for grievers. Let them know they're in your thoughts during these occasions, not just during the period of time immediately following the loss.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., July, 1993, p. 3]

MY LITTLE BIT IS NEEDED
When I was in the process of growing up, one of the hard things for me to understand was how snow could blanket the ground. I would watch the first flakes fall, and immediately upon touching the ground the flakes would melt. I thought, "If the first ones melt and the second ones do the same, how can it blanket the ground?" What I didn't understand was that each snowflake cooled the ground just a little and then each one would prepare the ground a little more for the next ones. If one began to melt, it would leave enough of itself that, added to the thousands of others, it would blanket the ground. So it is with your small efforts to convert the world to Christ. You can never convert a soul all by yourself, but coupled with others' efforts, you will.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., July, 1993, p. 3]

PERSONAL QUESTIONNAIRE (II Cor. 13:5)
Fill in each of the blanks. Of course you are not to let others see what you have written; however, remember this, God will see and know what you have answered!!!
1. Name: ___
2. How long have you been a Christian? ___
3. Approximately how many people have you brought to Christ? ___
4. Name or names of those you are trying to bring to Christ: ___
5. Last date you brought someone to church services: ___
6. Last date you invited someone to church services: ___
7. List of those you pray for daily: ___
8. How much do you give ($$$) to the Lord each week? ___
9. How much time do you spend in prayer each day? ___
10. How much time to you spend reading God's Word each day? ___
11. How much time do you spend watching TV each day? ___
12. Do you faithfully attend all services of the church? ___
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., July, 1993, p. 4]

SAID THE FARMER TO THE FRUIT TREE
Farmer: "Tree, I see all your nice green foliage and your sturdy trunk and root system, but where is your fruit?"
Tree: "You will notice I am more firmly anchored than any tree in the orchard, and I have the most beautiful leaves to be seen anywhere. Further, no broken, sagging limbs, and no scuff marks have I from workmen's shoes on my limbs."
Farmer: "These might be impressive, but I planted you for the purpose of bearing fruit, not to look pretty and preserve yourself. Suppose all my trees had your attitude! Why have you not borne fruit?"
Tree: "I tried to bear fruit a few years ago. Some of the beautiful fruit I worked so hard to develop fell to the ground and was lost. The odor was terrible! Also, my limbs would bend and break in the effort, and my whole system was strained. The painful treatment, as the workmen climbed my tender limbs and snapped my branches with their rapid strokes, was simply too much. To cap off the whole problem with fruitbearing, I produced the most fruit of any tree in the orchard, and I didn't get any glory. Now, under these circumstances, what do you expect?"
Farmer: "I expect you will make beautiful logs for my fireplace!"
(Matt. 7:19; John 15:1-8).
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 20, 1993, p. 3]

"Doc, my husband's mind keeps wandering. What should I do?"
"Don't let that worry you, I know you're husband - he can't go far."
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 20, 1993, p. 3]

YOU CAN'T TAKE IT BACK
(Prov. 25:11).
Most of us at one time or another have "put our foot in our mouth" by saying something we wish we hadn't. One thing is sure - you can't take it back. Once something is said - it is said. You may apologize as an aftermath of inconsideration and bad taste, but what you said won't be forgotten. You may forget it, but the other person won't.
(Col. 4:6).
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 20, 1993, p. 3]

The new employee stood before the paper shredder, looking confused. "Need some help?" a secretary asked.
"Yes," he replied, "how does this thing work?"
"Simple," she said taking the fat report from his hand and feeding it into the shredder.
"Thanks," he said, "but where do the copies come out?"
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 20, 1993, p. 3]

Missouri's Records Management Agency, in the process of gathering old records and photographing them for compact storage, came up with some unusual ones, including these from old vital statistics on records of cause of death:

"Went to bed feeling well, but woke up dead."
"Died suddenly. Nothing serious."
"Don't know. Died without the aid of a physician."
"Blow on the head with an ax. Contributory cause: another man's wife."
"Had never been fatally ill before."
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 20, 1993, p. 3]

MOMS AND DADS
A dad is a thing forced to endure childbirth without an anesthetic. A mom is a thing that goes through an emotional roller coaster for 9 months.
A dad growls when it feels good and laughs when he's scared to death. A mom tells him that it's okay to do just the opposite.
A dad never feels entirely worthy of the worship in a child's eyes. He's never quite the hero his daughter thinks and never quite the man his son believes him to be. A mom says to him, "Oh yes you are."
Dads grow old faster than moms because while waving goodbye to the kids when they leave the nest, they're beaming on the outside and dying on the inside. Moms just cry.
Dads are what give daughters away to other men who aren't nearly good enough, so they can have grand-kids that are smarter than anybody's. Moms look at dads with that look and say, "Honey, my parents felt the same way about you on our wedding day."
Knights in shining armor, and dads in shiny pants; there's little difference. Queens with golden crowns upon their heads, and moms with beautiful halos; once again, there's little difference.
Moms and dads experience weariness and worry every day, and while they never quite win the fight, they never give up.
But when they're greeted with a smile and a "Hi mom and dad. I love you," all things become bright and right in the world - and every minute of life is worth living.
[by Ben Holden from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 20, 1993, p. 4]

AMERICA'S GUTTER MOUTH
I have never heard Howard Stern, the radio personality, but he was fined $600,000 in December by the Federal Communications Commission for indecent language. He must have said some horrible things to have received such a fine because everywhere you go these days you hear profane, gutter, barnyard language, yet he is the only one I know of who has been required to pay money for his filthy speech.

If we can get $600,000 out of one man, I believe that we could erase our national debt by Sunday if we would only slap a tax on profanity for everyone. Why not? We are already familiar with "sin" taxes on tobacco and alcohol.

Our state legislature recently passed a tax code on soda pop and chocolate. So why should Sprite, or Hershey be classified as worse sinners than profanity or cussing?

We wouldn't have to raise all of the money from dock-workers, coaches, or comedians. I've heard some first graders we could make a mint from. I tell you the possibilities are endless even if we exempted the sailors.

We could tax the videos that people rent for their VCRs. So much tax for every filthy word that is spoken. The more profanity, the more tax. I tell you, it would be a gold mine.

We could have the phone companies collect money for every dirty word spoken, and double the tax rate on those calls which are interstate. And overseas calls - well, who knows how much we could charge for these?

After we pay off the national debt, clean up the environment, built new highways and bridges, construct new school buildings, provide health care for everyone, and increase Social Security payments, it would be time for school to be out.

(P.S. The Christian, of course, would never have this tax levied against him because he follows the injunction of Eph. 4:29).
[by John Gipson from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 13, 1993, p. 3]

PUNCTUALITY, NO LAUGHING MATTER!

"The man who is always punctual in keeping an appointment never loses anything by it."
"No, only about half an hour waiting for the other fellow to show up."
Punctuality - The art of guessing how late the other fellow is going to be.

Boss: "You are twenty minutes late again. Don't you know what time we start work at this factory?"
New employee: "No, sir, they're always at it when I get here."

There are lots of jokes about being late. Many of them are funny, we have to admit. But in a real sense, there is nothing funny about always being late. Chronic tardiness is a matter of habit. Some are always on time, others are always late.

Put yourself in the place of a Bible class teacher. You have planned your class carefully. You know how much time it will take for each part of the class you have so carefully planned. It is time to start. The beginning activities are important because they may set the tone for the entire class period, or they may introduce the material to be taught that day. But half of your class is not there on time. They come in two, five, ten minutes late. What do you do? Start all over again every two or three minutes? Just ignore the latecomers, and let them figure out what is going on?

It would be difficult to find a scripture that says it is wrong to be late, but it is not difficult to see that when we are late, it makes it very hard on our Bible class teachers. Let's all make a determined effort to be on time to Bible classes and worship. It is a great trait to teach your children also.
[by Wayne Sharp from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 6, 1993, p. 3]

BIBLE CLASSES ARE NOT FOR...
1. They are not for the development of teachers, but they do. Those who have sat in Bible classes over a period of years, and thus have diligently studied the Bible, are the ones qualified to teach others.
2. They are not for enrolling members, but they probably result in more being enrolled in the Lamb's Book of Life than any other phase of church work.
3. They are not conducted primarily to keep the youth out of jail, but law enforcement authorities have found them a leading influence against crime.
4. They are not preacher factories, but good classes in the Bible schools of thousands of congregations have been the beginning places of thousands of preachers. They obtained their basic knowledge there.

We all know this is true, yet look at the great number of members of the church who neglect this great work! Why not, with your family, be in Bible classes this Lord's Day - and every Lord's Day?
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 6, 1993, p. 3]

REPLANTING
The neighbor looked suspiciously over the fence at Williams who was busily digging. "What are you burying there, Williams?" he inquired. "I'm just replanting some of my seeds," he replied. "Seeds!" cried the neighbor. "It looks to me like one of my chickens." "That's right," agreed the other. "The seeds are inside."
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., June 6, 1993, p. 3]

WHY IS THE BIBLE THOUGHT DANGEROUS?
We learn that an Appeals Court has ruled it unconstitutional for Gideon International to hand out our Bibles in the public schools in Indianapolis.

It is all right to hand out condoms to 13 year-olds in our schools. It is all right to graphically instruct junior high kids on how to have safe sex. It is all right to give out free abortion counseling to children as young as 14 without parental consent - but wrong to give them a Bible in America. However, you can give them out in Russia.

Now to an extent I can understand why our children need to be protected from the dangerous doctrines contained in the Bible. Have you looked in it lately? It has such dangerous concepts as "love your neighbor as thyself," and "do not covet your neighbor's wife". And, of course, young ears should never hear such words as "do not commit adultery", or "flee fornication".

Oh, no we cannot, even under the principle of academic freedom which says that all competing ideas have a right to be heard, allow someone access to the Bible. Why they might read and believe, and live by some of those "dangerous" concepts.

If that were to happen, the world as we know it would come to an end. Parents would be respected and obeyed, as would teachers. We wouldn't need policemen in every school. Hatred and bigotry would soon die. Teen-age pregnancy and the perceived need to hand out safe-sex materials would soon be gone.
By all means protect us from such a fate.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., May 23, 1993, p. 3]

DO YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF FAITHFUL?
1. Is a car that starts one time out of seven "faithful"?
2. Is a refrigerator that quits for a day now and then "faithful"?
3. Is your paper boy "faithful" if he misses you with the paper every few mornings?
4. If you fail to go to work two or three days each week would you be "faithful" to your job?
5. If your hot water heater greeted you with cold water two or three mornings a week, would it be dependable?
Now, if you fail to come to worship God once or twice a month are you really "faithful"?
(Psa. 101:6).
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., May 23, 1993, p. 3]

AIDS AND THE SQUEAKING WHEEL
Haven't you heard the proverb, "the squeaking wheel gets the grease?" The meaning I get is that the person or persons making the most noise gets the most attention. Evidently the proverb holds true. Look what the noisy "gay (so-called) rights activists" have accomplished in just a short period of time.
1. They have been given a special audience in the Oval Office of the White Office. Mr. Clinton declined their invitation to march with them.
2. Turned billions of dollars for research on a plague that is brought on primarily by a sinful lifestyle (perverted homosexual relations and drug abuse). Daniel Lynch confesses in the Jan./Feb. 92 American Journalism Review that "We journalists aren't very good at conveying to our readers, viewers and listeners that we live in a world of relative risks...we often transmit misleading impressions." And, it is a result of those "misleading impressions" that they "gay activists" have created such a scare about AIDS. Mr. Lynch goes on to write: "The annual death toll from AIDS has been low compared with deaths from cardiovascular disease, cancer, diabetes or even drunken drivers." "Among the leading causes of death in America - including cancer and cardiovascular disease - AIDS ranks ninth. Yet we spend more than twice as much to fight the no. 9 killer than we do to fight the no. 1 killer."

The real punch from this journalist comes with this statement: The reality, painful though it may be, is that AIDS in the United States remains overwhelmingly confined to gays and intravenous drug users, who account for 85 percent of all cases."

The so-called "Gay" lifestyle led the citizens of Sodom and Gomorrah to be destroyed by God. Of those practicing the same depravity in New Testament times, we read "God gave them up" (Rom. 1:27-32).

The squeaking wheel may get the grease, but judgment day is still waiting!
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., May 23, 1993, p. 4]

GROWTH IS HARD WORK
Growth, in any realm, does not come without effort. Babies grow only when their needs for food, rest, and medical care are met. Otherwise, they deteriorate and die.

The same is true of spiritual growth. The Bible commands spiritual growth. (II Pet. 3:18). This growth does not come naturally, however. The proper food must be eaten regularly (I Pet. 2:2). The spiritual side of man must be exercised (I Tim. 4:8). And, of course, that terrible spiritual disease, sin, must be avoided. Understanding these things promotes growth, but ignoring them invites spiritual death.

This same basic truth can be applied to congregations. Churches do not just happen to grow. They grow in direct proportion to the individual growth level of their members, and to the willingness of each member to contribute to the overall growth of the body. (Eph. 4:16).

Why is there not more growth in individual lives, and in congregations? Isn't it because growth is hard work? It does not just happen. It must be made to happen. Many, it seems, are not willing to pay the price to grow.

But honestly, can we afford not to grow? Consider the alternative!
[by Duane Glover from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Dec. 6, 1992, p. 3]

It's a principle of growth.
In a living body every part has its work.
In a living church every member has his ministry.
Are we each doing our part?
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Dec. 6, 1992, p. 3]

HOW TO BE HAPPY WITHOUT EVEN TRYING
Someone has said that happiness is something which, if you hunt for it, you won't find it; but, if you live unselfishly and generously, it will find you. Jesus promises to his people the blessing of joy, but he does not promise that they will find it in the pursuit of joy. Rather, he promises joy to his followers in consequences of their seeking to follow him.

The Psalmist spoke somewhat concerning him who would...(Psa. 34:12); but he did not instruct such a one to set out to "desire life, and to love many days." Rather, to such as sought this fruit in their lives, he recommended...(Psa. 34:13-16). Also, the apostle Peter quotes this, almost verbatim, in I Pet. 3:10-12).

Happiness and inner peace are like tender plants. They spring up and flourish in the right soil and environment, but die if the essential elements are lacking. Inner peace and happiness are within you, and are not dependent upon external circumstances, but only upon what is within you. Not all can be rich and successful, but all can be happy through unselfish and confident faith in Christ.
[by Y. Leigh from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Dec. 6, 1992, p. 4]

THE BIBLE STUDY AND TEACHING WORK OF THE CHURCH
From its beginning, the church has been a teaching institution. No sooner had the church been established than we read...(Acts 2:42). Without such steadfastness in study and fellowship, the founding of the church had been a failure. The "ministry" which the Lord provided for his church was a "teaching ministry". (Eph. 4:11-14).

If it is sinful to neglect or to abuse the physical body, (and it is); how much more sinful is it for one to neglect his or her spiritual health and strength? And this is exactly what we do when we neglect to do all we can to encourage and to strengthen the Bible Study and teaching work of the church.
We pray you to think on these things, seriously.
[by Y. Leigh from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Dec. 6, 1992, p. 4]

CONSIDER THIS
Years ago an old lady down south had no money to buy food. But with complete trust in God, she got down on her knees and prayed aloud: "Dear Lord, please send me a side of bacon and a sack of corn meal."

Over and over again, the old lady repeated the same plea in a loud voice. One of the town's worst characters, overhearing her supplication, decided to play a trick on her. Hurrying to the nearest store, he bought a side of bacon and a sack of corn meal. Upon his return to the cabin, he dropped the food down the chimney. It landed right in front of the hungry woman as she knelt in prayer.

Jumping to her feet, she exclaimed jubilantly: "Oh, Lord, you've answered my prayer!" Then she ran all around the neighborhood telling everyone the good news. This was too much for the scoundrel. He ridiculed her before the others by telling how he had dropped the food down the chimney himself. The wise old woman quickly replied, "Well, the devil may have brought it, but it was the Lord who sent it!"
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Aug. 22, 1993, p. 4]

THE DOGS GOT HIM
The story goes that a fox and a groundhog were in the woods talking. They heard a pack of dogs approaching barking loudly. The groundhog ran quickly to his hole to hide. The fox stood laughing, "The groundhog is so dumb. All he can do is run into a hole. I'm smart. I can jump over a fence, I can climb a tree, I can hide in the bushes. Let's see...what should I do this time?" And while he was trying to decide, the dogs got him!

A Christian often finds many opportunities to say a word for Jesus to a lost friend or neighbor. We begin to think to ourselves, "Let's see, how should I bring up the subject of Jesus? What verses shall I use? Which method of personal work should I use?" Certainly it is right to plan your thoughts. Unfortunately, the more one thinks and tries to decide the more afraid he becomes. Eventually you end up saying nothing and the devil gets him!
[by Bill Goodpasture from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Aug. 22, 1993, p. 3]

A DEACON IS A SPIRITUAL MAN, TOO!
(Acts 6:5).
I may go out on a limb with this article, but, as they say, "That's where the fruit is!" And oftentimes that's where the truth lies. Our concept of the deacon and his work has, for too long, been one-dimensional. After all, someone says, "Isn't the office of deacon reserved for those who can serve in menial roles, caring for the physical building of the congregation and running errands for the elders?" We have, in some respects, relegated the office of deacon to a stepchild position. The elders are considered to be the spiritual man, the deacons are limited to the sphere of earthly things, or at least spiritual cosmetics. Friends, we have drawn a circle that is far too restrictive. The deacon is a spiritual man!

Yes, Stephen and Philip were chosen to aid the apostles in a special task of benevolence (Acts 6:1-6). However, their qualifications and the extensive work that they performed was unquestionably spiritual in nature (Acts 6:3).

Shortly thereafter, we find Stephen preaching the word of God boldly before the Libertines and, consequently, giving his life for the cause he loved. Stephen was a spiritual man.

When one reviews the stated qualifications in I Tim. 3 and Titus 1 for the office of deacons, he is immediately impressed with the obvious similarity to the qualifications for elders. There are but three differences. The elder must: (1) Be apt to teach; (2) Have believing children; and (3) Not be a novice. The balance of those qualifications are the same for deacons. The Bible doesn't require that a deacon have a strong back, an aptitude for manual labor, and a weak mind. The deacon is a spiritual man!

We need deacons who are concerned about the lost and dying. We need deacons who can show compassion to the unfortunate and down-and-out. Lincoln once said: "Whatever you are, be a good one!" If you aspire to be a deacon, be a good one! That means giving yourself in service to God and others. It takes a spiritual man to do that.
[by Kerry Knight from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., Aug. 22, 1993, p. 3]

LABOR IN VAIN?
A young woman who was a great lover of flowers had set out a rare vine at the base of a stone wall. It grew vigorously, but did not bloom. Day after day she cultivated it and watered it and tried in every way to coax it into bloom. One morning, as she stood disappointedly before it, her invalid neighbor, whose back lot adjoined her own called out and said "You can't imagine how much I have been enjoying the blooms of that vine you planted." She looked, and on the other side of the wall was a mass of blooms. The vine had crept through the crevices and flowered luxuriantly on the other side.

So often we think our efforts are thrown away because we do not see their fruits. We need to learn that in God's service our prayers, our toils, our crosses are never in vain. Somewhere they bear fruit and hearts will receive blessings and joy.
[from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ newsletter, Bartow, Fla., vol. 62, no. 33, Aug. 29, 1993, p. 1]

MAKE SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL
A few years ago while attending an art class in college, the teacher had prepared a ball of clay for each student. After the roll call, he began to pitch one of these balls from his desk to each one present. When all students received their clay, he said, "Make something beautiful of this, and I'll give you a good grade." What a challenge! Turn a ball of dirty red mud into something beautiful! Yes, because about one hour later those mud balls had been shaped into every type of pottery piece imaginable. Then, one week later after the pieces had been carved, glazed, and fired, they were recognized by the professor as beautiful art.

Teachers, when we are called upon to teach a Bible class, we are given a ball of living clay with the challenge, "Make something beautiful, and you will receive a reward." The challenge may seem impossible, but week by week these young lives can be molded into something beautiful. Some of the clay will seem impossible to work, and will rebel against all effort to shape, but we must realize that God holds the future in His hands, and can help us turn the most difficult ball of clay into a masterpiece.

One time, a congregation extended their bus program into an area of the city where many of the children had never attended a Bible class. One teacher told another about one little boy in particular that was impossible to handle. She had tried every way possible to get his attention. Finally she asked him, "What is your purpose in life?" His answer, "To fight!" And this he did every Sunday in class. She asked her fellow-teacher, "What am I going to do with this little boy?" Her friend thought for a moment and answered, "How do you know this little boy may grow up to be another Marshall Keeble!" (a preacher that has converted thousands to Christ). With this thought, she returned to her class with renewed courage.

Simon Peter must have seemed to Jesus like a tough ball of clay to mold. In fact, he was constantly getting himself into trouble. However, Jesus patiently molded him into an Apostle that unlocked the doors of the kingdom to both Jews and Gentiles (Acts 2:10). That which was so changeable and unstable became Peter the stone! (John 1:42).

May we as teachers never lose sight of the fact that we are molding boys and girls into Christians and servants for the church, husbands and wives with Christian homes, and Christian employers and employees for the business world. For them to be their best in all these important areas, they need to grow up being taught about God and His beautiful way of life through His Son.

Therefore, you are challenged to rethink the importance of your role as a Christian Bible teacher. Do not become blinded to your goals as a teacher by some of the clay that does not properly respond. Give everything you have to the teaching of God's Word, and God will help you make something beautiful!
[by Benny B. Bristow from North Jackson Ave. church of Christ